How To Be An Ally

 

In the last few weeks, we have seen an uproar as Americans across the country voice their outrage at the senseless killing of Black people at the hands of the very institution designed to protect them - the police. The killing of George Floyd (may he rest in peace) has pushed conversations calling for the dismantling of systemic racism.

June 29, 2020


 

Here at MWP, our focus has been on unlearning and learning about how we can be an effective ally. Our conversations have centered around the notion that police brutality and systemic racism does not affect another person, it affects everyone of us. The Prophet (PBUH) advised us - want for your brother or sister what you want for yourself. Personalize the issue and think about how you can dismantle systemic racism in your own communities and circles.

Here are some ways on how to do so:

Do not perpetuate performative allyship - Shift your mindset from thinking about how good of an ally you are to what you can do better. Many of us posted the black square on Instagram, signed petitions, used our social platforms to bring awareness to issues - but with time, focus has shifted from the Black Lives Matter to content about fashion, food, and our everyday life. Ask yourself what are you doing to bring about systemic racism outside of Instagram? Is it by signing a petition to your local officials, donating to organizations like Black Lives Matter and bail funds or continuing to challenge your own biases? These are just a few ways we can demonstrate consistent allyship.

Start at home - ‘Why can't people protest peacefully?’, ‘Why do they say Black Lives Matter instead of All Lives Matter?, ‘There is more freedom here than in our home countries. Why must we complain?’ -- we have all heard these statements or at least one of them from the armchair commentators on social media. Challenge these statements, provide resources, and have those difficult conversations at home. Call out family members who continue to perpetuate racist stereotypes of Black people. Remind them that if not for the Civil Rights Movement there would be no Immigration Act of 1965. 

Educate yourself - Always look for ways to further educate yourself on the subject. Here are some resources to get you started:

Movies & TV Shows

  1. Hello, Privilege. It's Me, Chelsea.

  2. 13th 

  3. Selma

  4. Just Mercy

  5. The Hate U Give

  6. When They See Us

  7. Dear White People

Books

  1. The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander

  2. White Fragility by Robin DiAngelo

  3. Black Feminist Thought by Patricia Hill Collins

  4. Eloquent Rage: A Black Feminist Discovers Her Superpower by Dr. Brittney Cooper

  5. Heavy: An American Memoir by Kiese Laymon

  6. How To Be An Antiracist by Dr. Ibram X. Kendi

  7. I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou

  8. Invisible No More: Police Violence Against Black Women and Women of Color by Andrea J. Ritchie

  9. Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson

  10. Me and White Supremacy by Layla F. Saad

Podcasts to subscribe to:

 
 
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